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a Little Help From My Friends
By: Grace Mehl, IF Public Relations
As Dad reviewed last
week’s race sheet this morning, he pointed out that many of my fellow
club members were clocking birds with my band sequence on them. “Good,”
I said, at least they are not wasting the potential. That was not what
my Dad had in mind, I know. He, and some others, think I help other flyers
too much. This year and for the past couple of years, I raised more youngsters
than I needed, or could possibly fly. Then, I gave many away. I gave them
to beginners and members in my club. I put them into the IF Convention
race and maybe a few auction races. I gave late hatches to my friends
who have given me birds in the past, if they admired a certain bird or
pair. And, that is the key, right there. I am reciprocating the help that
was given to me.
I have been flying for 5 years now. When I decided to get into the racing
sport, I received help from many people who knew my Dad. He called them
and we went over and made a few deals to buy a few youngsters here, a
few breeders there. We bought them at a fair price. But, it surprised
me that I had to buy birds at all! I remembered when I was little and
following Dad around, he would give birds to people who were getting started.
I was surprised that custom had faded out. Where were the friends who
swapped birds? They were hard to find. There were a few, though. They
are the old fashioned sportsmen. In my little club, they predominate.
In NLI club, I don’t think there is a single person who, when I
have visited their loft, hasn’t said “Grace, if you like that
bird, I’ll breed you a pair of youngsters next year.” That’s
why they fly my birds, and I smile when they clock them. Is there something
wrong with that?
I was over at the pigeon club house the other afternoon setting up some
new software on the club computer and I had the front door propped open.
The school up the street let out while I was there and two young men stuck
their heads in the door to see what a pigeon club was all about, as they
passed it every school day and no one had ever been there before. So,
I spent some time telling them about the sport and the birds. They vowed
to stop back one night when we are shipping the birds.
I was releasing my birds on the fringe of a residential area one summer
morning when a woman walked over from a house. I cringed, thinking she
might not like me being there, releasing pigeons. But, it turns out she
was fascinated by the sport and wanted to know more. I spent 20 minutes
or so explaining. Her name is Lily and she is a middle school teacher.
Lily took down my phone number and she called last week to ask me if I
could come talk to her classes. She teaches in a small school with 100
students and she wants me to spend the day and talk to all 5 of her 20
student classes! We set up a date.
I have a beginner through the “IF Help-A-Beginner” program
that I mentor in Pennsylvania. He took 2nd in a 250 mile YB race last
year with a bird I had sent him. This year I gave him more youngsters.
We talk on the phone frequently. He asks me about things he hears from
other members in the club. We talk about breeding, training, feeding,
and medications. At least half of his team is made up of my birds. I visited
his loft in the spring and I am hoping that he can visit mine this fall
with his father. His name is Albert and he is eleven.
This is what the pigeon racing sport is all about. Teaching others to
love pigeons and learn about the sport is how we keep the sport alive.
Breaking into the sport is difficult, and without help, nearly impossible.
It takes time to figure out how to build a loft, how to recognize health
and illness, how to best train race birds. I certainly haven’t figured
it all out, and I work hard at it. What I have figured out, is that if
I didn’t have Dad to bounce things off of and didn’t have
such good friends in my club and outside of my club, it would have been
a lot harder to get this far. If I started to mention names, the list
would be very long and I would invariably be in trouble for leaving someone
off. These pigeon men pushed, pulled and goaded me in the right direction.
They mentored me.
Now I mentor others. Some formally, through the IF Help a Beginner program,
some informally.
Who are you mentoring?
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